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Meditation is inner astronomy. You discover the stars, the moon,
and the sun are all inside you.
What is Meditation?
Most dictionaries define the Western (Jewish, Christian,
Islamic) meaning of the word 'meditation,' but usually do not describe the
Eastern (Hindu, Buddhist, Taoist) concept of meditation. The most appropriate
dictionary definition I could find reads as follows: "If you meditate, you give
your attention to one thing, and do not think about anything else, usually as a
religious activity or as way of calming or relaxing your mind." This definition
very subtly implies that meditation means thinking about something, be it
religious or mystical in nature, and that a constant thought process goes on
while one meditates. The purest Eastern definition of the word 'meditation'
means not thinking at all, but rather focusing the consciousness on the cosmic
whole, "the all and the everything" as George Gurdjieff called it, without
thought, judgment, or distraction.
We define the word 'meditation' here as the art of
consciousness becoming aware of itself on the grand and cosmic scale. Meditation
cannot honestly be called a science because any real science requires objective
testing, which is not currently possible for the practice of meditation. The
real art of meditation is beyond thought, beyond society, and beyond time.
Why meditate?
Meditation brings a sense of
fullness and completion and is the only permanent source of tranquility
available to human beings. All other forms of serenity are temporary and
dissolve into conflict and chaos over time. The euphoria of drugs quickly lead
to misery and self-destruction. The wholesomeness of love, so beautiful and
ethereal, is a relatively short lived and fleeting experience. As J.
Krishnamurti said, meditation brings order and "That order is the order of the
universe. It is irrevocable and doesn't depend on anything." Meditation is the
eternal essence of nature taking on conscious form within the mortal human
frame.
Meditation is also an adventure of self-discovery. How can you
live without knowing who or what you are? If someone asks you who you are during
the day you may state your name, as if a temporary label actually means
something important. Ask yourself who you are when you are in deep sleep,
unconscious and without even a dream to prove that you exist at all. Ask
yourself who you were ten months before you were born and who you will be just
one moment after your body dies. Meditation increases awareness of the natural
phenomena that is actually going on behind your own eyes. Self-knowledge has
intrinsic value, even without the indescribable bliss nature generously
unleashes in those who practice meditation with sincerity and patience.
Sitting Meditation
Classic sitting meditation is a
vital part of all meditation traditions and has taken many forms, some more
effective than others. Some traditional approaches demand that the student sit
motionless for hours on end, as if becoming a human statue is the only key to
enlightenment. A more scientific approach does not make the human body our
enemy, but rather works with our natural physiology to allow more intense
meditation with less effort and discomfort. Masochism is not an effective path
to self-realization.
Begin by finding a relatively quiet
place to meditate where you will not be disturbed. All forms of classic sitting
meditation should be done in silence, with no background music. You can sit
cross legged on a meditation pillow or in a comfortable chair. Eyes may be fully
open, half open, or slightly open, letting in just two small slits of light.
Meditating with eyes fully closed is fine as long as the room remains brightly
lit so that enough light passes through the eyelids to keep your brain alert.
Meditating with eyes closed in a darkened room presents fundamental
physiological problems.
When you sit quietly with your eyes closed in darkness your
brain interprets this situation as a signal to start shutting itself down for
sleep. Sleep inducing hormones such as melatonin are released that make you
drowsy at the same time your circulation and heart rate are reduced due to lack
of movement. You feel as if swept away on a sea of quiet relaxation. This
pleasant experience may be light sleep state hypnosis, not meditation at all,
and thus do you no more good than taking a nap. Meditation means that you are
relaxed as if sleeping but your consciousness is fully and intensely awake.
If you meditate with your eyes closed the room must remain very brightly lit so
that a significant amount of light passes through the eyelids.
The second defense against sleepiness is to break up your
meditation into three fifteen minute sessions that are easy for your body to
tolerate. Sit quietly for fifteen minutes, then stand for two minutes, then sit
for another fifteen minutes, then stand for two minutes, then sit for a final
fifteen minute session. This 49 minute technique can be done once a day, twice a
day, or three times a day for intense practice. You can time yourself by making
a tape recording with the sound of a bell or a gong to let you known when to
stand up, sit down, and begin and end the meditation.
This technique largely eliminates the problem of cramps,
soreness, and numbness in legs often experienced by students attempting to sit
for longer periods of time than the body was naturally made to sit. The standing
breaks increase blood circulation which helps wakefulness. Comfort is maintained
and we avoid the light sleep state hypnosis problem mentioned earlier.
The transitions between sitting and standing in this method are
an opportunity to practice meditation in action. Normally, unless we are
physically ill, our waking lives are spent in motion and activity. Meditation
must not be thought of as something that is done only in a physically rigid
state far removed from the world of work and play. The goal is to become
meditative continuously so that your very being becomes cosmically conscious,
permanently and irrevocably. When you stand up and sit down during these
meditation sessions, feel the inner flow of meditation continue. Observe that
your body is moving but your existential identity remains the same.
What do you do while sitting?
The most basic approach to meditation is to relax, let go, and
do nothing. Surrender to the moment and watch yourself as a silent witness. If
thoughts come to mind, then observe the thoughts without adding to them by your
active participation. Be a detached and passive observer and simply feel your
most basic and fundamental being. This inherently immense being has been
respectfully called the ground of being.
The enlightened teacher J. Krishnamurti used the term "choiceless
awareness" to describe his own meditation method. This means being conscious
without the thought process choosing something smaller than your vast
fundamental being to focus on. Consciousness is like a glass ball floating in
the depth of space. Light and sensory input flows into the field of
consciousness from all directions. When you think, you focus your attention on
just one area of sensory input or you create a thought from memory stored within
the brain. With choiceless awareness you are not thinking or remembering, just
floating and letting sensory input flow through you from all directions without
manipulating that input with the thought process. You live in the moment and
become totally open. This openness attracts energy from all sides of the
universe which pushes you even higher.
Krishnamurti's choiceless awareness
is the same "methodless method" that Zen monks call "mindfulness." Hindu yogis
sometimes call it "one pointed vision." A more accurate term might be one
object vision. This means that you observe yourself, the sky, the trees, and
the entire universe as one object. You no longer see the world as a multitude of
parts and disconnected events. Instead, you accurately perceive the observer and
the observed as exactly the same thing, with no artificial wall of separation
blocking the limits of consciousness. This singular entity becomes acutely aware
of itself in all its vastness. The one cosmic being, as Krishnamurti said, is
"beyond time" and is "untouched by thought." The revered sage Ramana Maharshi
described it as "infinite" and "bigger than the human race."
Another useful method is to lend special awareness to the
breathing process felt in the belly. Just behind and below your navel (belly
button) lies the hara, which is felt as an ethereal ball of energy. The hara is
a natural balancing point of your consciousness that can be thought of as the
center of your subtle body. No one really knows what the hara actually is, but
we can use it to our advantage. When your consciousness is centered at the hara
instead of in the head, your thinking process slows down and can even stop. When
the thinking process slows down you can relax in the expanded world of pure
being. Trying to stop distracting thoughts by will power alone often leads to
even more thoughts and a self-defeating inner struggle. By transferring your
center of awareness to the hara thoughts gradually disappear on their own
without any inner conflict. This is why you see Buddha statues with a big belly.
This is an esoteric message that the hara is a key to meditation.
Sit quietly and focus on your belly as it moves in and out as
you breathe. Over time the hara point will become more noticeable as your
meditation grows stronger. We all feel the hara when startled or in intense
danger. Sudden emergencies, such as near collisions on the highway, tend to
activate the hara center. You get a "gut reaction" from sudden danger. You can
nourish the feeling of the hara by simply paying passive attention to it. This
relaxed concentration is very close to doing nothing yet it is still a subtle
effort. Drinking herb tea or hot water before meditation sessions relaxes the
gut and facilitates awareness of the hara. Overeating and consuming cold drinks
tends to make hara awareness more difficult.
WARNING Avoid the use of mantras and long repetitive
chanting. Repeating the same words over and over is a method of forgetfulness
which will bore the mind and leads to the light sleep state hypnosis problem
mentioned earlier. I would define a mantra as the repetition of words, usually
meaningless, for a period of two minutes or more. Mantras have traditionally
been used for hours on end by students who become mentally calmed and dulled
by their use.
The use of meaningful incantations, described in detail in the
next section, is quite different than mantras use and can help bring
consciousness to greater clarity. Words can help because the human brain is a
word machine. Our minds are computers that process symbols, and words are
symbols. For example, repeating the words "I am the space...I am the
space...I have always been the space" for a period of up to two minutes can
be very helpful in focusing consciousness on the infinite. Do it much longer and
the words lose their meaning. The exercise then degrades into a mantra,
defeating the purpose of increasing wakefulness.
Mantras have proven to be medically
helpful for some because they can unleash hormones that temporarily calm the
mind. Mantras are healthier than taking tranquilizers, but are fundamentally
different from meditation, which relies on the purifying fire of
self-observation. Self-observation is a difficult task that requires courage and
an endurance of character and spirit. Real meditation has the real
payoff of leading to a naturally calm and expanded state of consciousness,
not just an artificially silenced mind that remains fundamentally shallow.
A self-inquiry incantation
There are powerful words that can help your meditation, but they
form a strategic questioning, not a mantra. Ramana Maharshi was a beloved Indian
teacher who reached enlightenment through self-inquiry, by asking the most
fundamental question "Who am I?" Here is a self-inquiry technique that
expands Ramana Maharshi's method to make it even more powerful. Speak out loud
the following incantation with total intensity before and/or during
formal sitting meditation sessions. By the term "total intensity" I mean the
same level of intensity you would feel if you were just told that you had only
one hour left to live. Be emotional, be Italian, use your hands and body
language if it helps. Plead with the universe the following question.
What is this ball of consciousness?...What is this ball of
consciousness?...What is this ball of consciousness?
- You can repeat this question up to a dozen times if the spirit moves you.
I am not this library of memories.
I am the space...I am the space...I have always been the space.
- You can repeat this statement up to a dozen times.
I cut these bonds of attachment now! - This last
phrase is optional.
Do these words sound silly? Laughter is good for meditation and
the words are humorous, but the method itself is deeply serious and actually
works, often with startling, electrically shocking power. You invoke this
questioning incantation from the hara center, not from the head. Resonate the
words deep inside you, without thinking of intellectual explanations of who you
are. Just asking this question is purifying and ennobling. Self-inquiry is a
very fundamental and innocent endeavor, and you need an innocent and totally
open mind to see reality directly, without the distortions of memory and
thought.
Over time you will find the words become a trigger mechanism
which allows you to instantly drop all peripheral involvement and come home to
your true cosmic being. We all have the same essential being and that being
is cosmic. No one is left out of this universe. If you are a part of the
universe you are all of the universe! The small 'I' is dropped and only
the big 'I' remains. Then you can have a good belly laugh and that is the way I
end most of my own meditation sessions. I meditate until I start laughing from
the hara center. Then I know I am cooked!
The statement, "I am not this library of memories," means
that you are not just a collection of images of past events stored as memories
in the cells of the brain. Memory is the foundation of the false self, which is
the small, temporary, and highly limited self which we feel as the 'me' and the
'I'. Human beings are not mere fragments of the world of illusion that Hindus
call maya, the ever changing peripheral world of transient events. We are
at our core and heart the changeless being beyond the realm of the
senses. Our true and permanent identity extends far beyond birth and death and
beyond simple pleasure and pain. We are the infinite void from which all
is born. That is the meaning of the statement "I have always been the space."
Nothing is bigger than space and space contains all that exists.
When speaking the optional phrase,
"I cut these bonds of attachment now!," it helps to slap the back
of the right hand against the palm of the left hand upon saying the word "now!"
Reverse hands if you are left handed. This creates a loud cracking sound
which adds drama and helps wake up the central nervous system. You can use this
questioning technique only at the beginning of formal sitting meditation
sessions or you can repeat the incantation every five to ten minutes during the
session to help keep yourself focused. Combining this self-inquiry
incantation with the mirror gazing technique described below creates a
super-method of great power and intensity.
Word exercises are not for all students of meditation. If you
try them and feel nothing then concentrate on other methods first. As you slowly
change your methods will change with you. A method that is unusable now may be
of great help to you in the future.
Mirror Gazing
Some students find the use of a
mirror virtually doubles the power of their meditation sessions. Sit in front of
a mirror and gaze into the reflected image, setting your focus just above the
head so that you view the wall behind you. Looking directly at the face
or eyes may be too intense an experience for many students, or may lead to silly
concern about personal appearance. Using this technique, one only views the
physical body as a shadowy peripheral silhouette. Continue gazing for twenty
minutes, allowing the eyes to deeply relax their focus.
Enjoy the mirror gazing for twenty minutes, then stand for two
minutes, maintaining the heightened awareness as you change position. Then
resume sitting in quiet meditation for a further twenty minutes with eyes almost
totally closed, allowing in just two slits of light. This mirror gazing
technique takes forty two minutes, but may be extended to one full hour if
desired, with eyes open and eyes closed sections remaining equal. Please
practice this method no more than once a day to avoid eye strain. Strong
meditation techniques are medicine and you should not overdose on any one
particular method. Combining the mirror gazing technique with the
self-inquiry incantation previously detailed can increase its effectiveness
tremendously, creating a super-method.
Eye Gazing
To do this technique you must have
a partner of the opposite sex, preferably someone you love. It is similar to the
mirror gazing technique described above except you that look into the eyes of
your loved one. Sit together, staring softly into your partners eyes for twenty
minutes. Then stand silently for two minutes. Then sit in quiet meditation with
eyes almost totally closed for a further twenty minutes. This technique can
readily lead to romantic intimacy so pick your partner carefully.
Cathartic Dancing Meditation
Cathartic Dancing Meditation is a
cosmic powerhouse that can be used by students in good health with a normal
cardiovascular system. As it is a physically strenuous exercise, one should get
a complete physical examination by a competent doctor before experimenting with
this technique. Explain the method to your doctor and ask if it would be
physically dangerous for you to do. He won't understand your motives for wanting
to do it but he can tell you if he thinks your body and heart can safely handle
it. As with jogging or mountain climbing, you must practice this method at
your own risk.
Cathartic Dancing Meditation is similar to Rajneesh Dynamic
Meditation but is simpler, easier to do, and is more likely to keep you
interested month after month, year after year. Neither method is really new.
Sufis, Druids, and countless other esoteric and tribal cultures have used
similar techniques for centuries. Most students will benefit from doing
Cathartic Dancing Meditation daily for a period of between one and five years.
After five years it has usually done its job and the student can move on to more
subtle techniques.
Cathartic Dancing Meditation changes you from head to toe and
benefits all the other meditation methods you may practice. It also helps
develop a powerful hara center. I am reluctant to bring up the subject of
kundalini (see definition near the bottom of the page) because of the common
misrepresentations of its manifestations. I feel compelled to inform you,
however, that this physically vigorous meditation method is the most powerful
kundalini awakening technique I know of. Cathartic Dancing Meditation has three
stages and lasts for forty minutes.
Stage #1 (ten minutes) Start by standing with your
eyes closed and breathe deep and fast through your nose continuously. If you are
only physically capable of doing deep breathing for five minutes then reduce the
length of the first stage without feeling guilty. Remember that you are doing
this method to help your meditation, not to physically injure yourself. Allow
your body to move freely as you breathe. You can jump up and down, sway back and
forth, or use any physical motion that helps you pump more oxygen into your
lungs.
Stage #2 (twenty minutes)
The second stage is a celebration of catharsis and wild and spontaneous dancing.
Let go totally and act as an ancient human dancing in tribal celebration.
Energetic, nonverbal background music is highly recommended. African tribal drum
music works especially well. You may roll on the ground and do strange
spontaneous body movements. Allow the body to move within the limits of not
hurting yourself or others. For once in your life screaming is encouraged. You
must act out any anger you may have in a safe way, such as beating the earth
with your hands. All the suppressed emotions from your subconscious mind are to
be released. If at anytime during the second stage you feel that your energy
level is starting to decline you can resume deep and fast breathing to give
yourself a boost.
Stage #3 (ten minutes)
This stage is complete relaxation and quiet. Flop down on your back, get
comfortable, and just let go. Be as if a dead man totally surrendered to the
cosmos. Enjoy the tremendous energy you have unleashed in the first two stages
and be a silent witness to it. Observe the feeling of the ocean flowing into the
drop. Become the ocean.
This spontaneous dancing meditation technique is intended to
grow with the student and change as the student changes. After a few years of
vigorously practicing this method, the first two stages of the meditation may
drop away spontaneously. You may then begin the meditation by taking a few deep
breaths and immediately go deep into the ecstasy of the third stage. If
practiced correctly this method is health giving and fun.
WARNING: Obviously one must practice Cathartic Dancing
Meditation in a safe location and not near the edge of a cliff or on a hard
surface where one might fall and break one's skull. A large room or hall with
thick carpeting is good. Outdoors in the early morning on a soft and well tended
lawn with group participation is best. Do it on an empty stomach and avoid
falling into dangerous objects such as windows. It is allowable to briefly open
one's eyes occasionally to maintain your location. Create a safety zone around
your dancing and spontaneous body movements. Be courteous to neighbors and
delete the screaming if it will be heard by others.
Almost all Westerners are head oriented and emotionally
repressed. For us a chaotic, spontaneous, and emotionally cleansing technique
like Cathartic Dancing Meditation is vital for serious progress to be made
quickly. The physical benefits of this technique obviate any need for hatha yoga
or traditional kundalini yoga methods. Cathartic Dancing Meditation is so
multidimensional in its effects and benefits that it deserves the designation of
a super-method.
Soul Awareness
This method is recommended for
those students who have practiced the other described techniques long enough to
gain a feeling of floating bodilessness. If you cannot feel your subtle body you
cannot practice this method effectively. In the beginning, it should only be
used during formal sitting meditation sessions. Latter on, after you have gained
some progress with this method, you can use an evolved version of the meditation
while engaged in any activity that does not require thinking or your full
attention. For example, you can practice it while walking in a safe location
away from highway traffic.
Begin this method by sitting with eyes fully open. Softly gaze
at a blank wall, or more preferably, look out a window at a distant vista. With
the mind's eye (the eye of consciousness behind your body's purely physical
eyes) define your field of visual consciousness as a circle. Imagine the top of
your field of consciousness as the 12 o'clock position on a clock and the bottom
of your field of consciousness as the 6 o'clock position. With your mind's eye,
not your physical eyes, slowly sweep your attention clockwise from the top 12
o'clock position down to the 6 o'clock position, then on to the 9 o'clock
position and then back up to the 12 o'clock position. Repeat this process in the
counterclockwise direction. Mentally strain to observe the very outer edges of
your visual field of consciousness where the light of consciousness turns into
the darkness of empty space. Go on repeating this process until you feel you
have had enough.
This is a soul awareness exercise, not an eye exam, and that is
why it is recommended only for students with a number of years of experience in
meditation. After practicing this method for some time one can begin to
transform the method into one of sudden expansion of awareness. You can gain the
ability to perceive the complete 360 degrees of the outer edges of your
consciousness in one jump. This feels like stepping back, literally out of your
own mind, and looking back into your mind from a close and friendly distance.
You become identified with the void and space around the flame of consciousness
and this makes the flame grow even brighter. This truly esoteric method is
difficult to fully explain and there are aspects of it that you will have to
learn on your own through practice.
One discovers from this technique that our visual field of
consciousness is roughly football shaped with greater width than height. This is
because our brains evolved out of a need to look for food and danger more on the
horizontal axis than on the vertically axis. To survive you need to be aware of
what is on your right and left more than what is directly below your feet or
above your head. This soul awareness method has a deprogramming effect that
allows one to appreciate the play of existence as an ever changing drama. You
feel as if you are in it but also out of it and beyond it. Combining the
advanced form of this soul awareness method with the self-inquiry incantation
described earlier creates a powerful super-method.
Sweeping House
This is an easy technique designed to quickly sweep the clutter
of thoughts from your mind. It can be used before starting formal sitting
meditation sessions or anytime during the day you feel you have lost your
existential focus. Begin by placing both hands behind your head with fingers
interlocked. Rest your hands at the point where the neck and the head meet. Then
sweep your hands over the top of your head. This can be done either slowly or
quickly as you prefer. Imagine that your hands are gathering up all your
thoughts as they move. When your hands reach just below your forehead, use a
flicking motion as you simultaneously unlock your fingers and throw your hands
away from your face. Feel as if all your thoughts are being swept out of your
eyes and discarded. Do this between ten and twenty times as needed, and then
relax and enjoy the inner silence. This method takes less than one minute to do
and can be used at bedtime to help free the mind from the problems of the day.
Sweeping House with a Kicker
A variation of the sweeping house technique is to add a
breathing stage after the sweeping stage is complete. Place your right palm
(left if you are lefthanded) on your forehead and place your left palm on the
back of the right hand. Now take 4 to 7 deep breaths through the nose and feel
as if you are drawing the air way down to your belly. Fully exhale in a normal
and relaxed fashion after each breath. This breathing technique is not yoga
bastrika. It is ordinary deep breathing done with intensity and fullness. After
exhaling the last breath, sit motionless a few moments with your hands still on
your forehead. Cooperate with any upward flow of energy you may feel. This
energetic method can be done every 10 minutes during an hour long sitting
meditation session to create a mild and safe kundalini technique.
You can be creative
After you have become comfortable
with the meditation techniques individually you can learn to incorporate them
simultaneously to multiply their effectiveness. For example, combining mirror
gazing, hara awareness, the soul awareness technique, and the use of the
self-inquiry incantation can be an extremely powerful super-method. There
are no rigid one size fits all meditation techniques. Follow your intuition and
let the methods evolve to fit your own individuality. Don't take the time
suggestions for methods as rigid limits. If you desire to extend your meditation
sessions then go with the flow.
The wanting mechanism
What is one of the most important
factors in keeping us diverted from meditation in the here and now? Look inside
your mind and find the wanting mechanism. The wanting mechanism
continuously constructs images of new experiences the mind desires, derived from
memories of the past. The mind becomes enamored with these new fantasy images
and is diverted from what actually is, here and now. The eternal cosmic
consciousness exists here and now, never in the future, and never in the past.
Future and past are illusory and do not exist in any real physical form outside
of projections of the mind. What exists now is everything, and you
already have it. You only need to become conscious of your own wealth.
If everyone in the world suddenly became enlightened, in my
opinion, the human race would come to an end. There would be a lack of
sufficient desire to keep people motivated enough to have families, raise
children, grow crops, and protect society from all the natural threats, from
disease to ecological disaster. That said, I certainly believe that
enlightenment is a desirable goal for those who really want it. But you can see
the impossibility of the situation. When you "want" enlightenment your wanting
mechanism is still active and enlightenment will not happen to you. So we can
breathe easy that everyone in the world will not become enlightened, all at the
same time, anytime soon.
Ask yourself these questions.
1) If you want something, how can you stop thinking about it?
2) If you don't want anything, what is there to think about?
3) If you don't want anything, is there anything to be angry
about?
4) If you don't want anything, is there anything to make you
unhappy?
5) Rocks and other inanimate objects do not want and do not
suffer, but they are unconscious and dead. How does a living human being enter a
no-wanting state while fully conscious and filled to the brim with life energy?
That is the incredible contradiction and difficulty in becoming enlightened.
At some point on your own noble path you will see very clearly
that wanting is a barrier. That realization may hit you suddenly like a freight
train (my blood is still on the tracks) or gradually creep into your
consciousness over time. Only when you see it clearly on your own should you try
to step back from the wanting mechanism. Until that right time occurs you will
be needed to save this beautiful planet earth, to raise families, and to be good
citizens. Take meditation one step at a time. Do not try to imitate the final
steps into the abyss while you are still at the foot of the mountain.
How long should I meditate?
The time a person needs to spend in
formal meditation sessions to gain maximum benefit depends on ever-changing
individual circumstances. If you are meditating with a group you will gain from
the group energy and go further with less effort. If you are fortunate enough to
be living close to an enlightened teacher you may be able to absorb some of his
high energy without any effort at all. If you are meditating alone, without
support from others, then you will have to do all the heavy lifting yourself.
My general recommendation is that 1
hour a day spent in formal meditation sessions is a minimal effort. Meditation
only works for those who are hungry for it and if you cannot spare that small
amount of time for meditation then you will probably not gain substantial
results. Most people will be helped significantly by meditating 1 hour a day,
but progress may be so slow that you barely feel it. If you wish to go faster,
so that you can feel the wind in your hair with clearly recognizable progress,
then I suggest 1.5 to 2.5 hours a day.
Two 45 minute sessions, one in the morning and one in the
evening, works well for most people. Adding a third 45 minute session in the
afternoon is stronger medicine if you can manage it. Spending more time than
that in formal meditation sessions becomes difficult for most people as it takes
you away from family, friends, job, and social responsibilities. A specific
recommendation for young, physically fit beginners would be to practice
Cathartic Dancing Meditation in the morning and one of the quiet sitting
meditations at night.
It is of paramount important to practice mindfulness throughout
the day. To be of any real value meditation must become a full-time way of
living rather than a strictly segregated activity. Choose methods that make you
feel more positive. Meditation should be a form of cosmic hedonism, not a
penance one must perform as an obligation.
How long does it take to become enlightened?
I have no idea how to answer that
question as I am just a fellow student myself. I do not believe the old
scriptures nor do I trust the word of pundits and self-proclaimed "masters." It
may take 10 lifetimes or 1,000,000 lifetimes.
Meditation is a pleasure in itself
and the healthiest approach is to enjoy the journey without thoughts of gaining
a pot of gold at the end of some distant rainbow. Ask yourself who or what will
reach that imagined goal? If our petty little minds reach enlightenment, then
will we be enlightened at all? Thinking about goals takes us further away from
choiceless awareness, relaxation, and ecstasy, and is thus counterproductive. It
is best to fully enjoy the journey of meditation without seeking any title,
credentials, or an ultimate brass ring that we can selfishly own and brag about
to others.
Things to do, things to avoid, and things to consider
Work in groups when possible as group energy can multiply
the energy of an individual many times over.
Remember that meditation is an escape to reality, not
an escape from reality. Avoid any guru or group that asks you to deny
truth.
Don't limit yourself to just one teacher. The single guru
approach can lead to cult thinking with its small mindedness and us vs.
them syndrome.
Sitting cross-legged on the floor yoga style during formal
sitting meditation sessions helps retain energy in the second body, but
sitting normally in a chair is acceptable if that is all you can manage. A
far better alternative to traditional yoga style cross-legged sitting is to
meditate in a recliner chair with knees bent and the soles of the feet
pressed together. You can then lock hands together and rest them in your lap
or place them over your emotional heart in the center of the chest, one hand
laid on top of the other. This recliner chair method works as well as
sitting on the floor in the full lotus position.
Hatha yoga can make you more energetic and fit for long
meditation sessions, but do not take it too seriously or become obsessed
with extreme gymnastics. The easy and basic hatha yoga exercises work best.
Extreme "kundalini yoga" exercises that involve fast breathing in bizarre
and contorted positions are not recommended and may be dangerous.
Having a separate room used exclusively for meditation in
very helpful if you can afford it. You can build up a vibration in a room so
that the moment you enter your mind becomes silent and ready to go deeper.
Take good care of your health. Get a proper diet without
becoming a food fanatic. A vegetarian diet supplemented with dairy products
is generally best. Eggs are not harmful to meditation. If you wish to eat
meat, then fish is a better choice than fowl or beef. If you have a medical
problem like hypoglycemia you may have to eat meat just to survive. A
vegetarian or semi-vegetarian diet is usually best for students of
meditation, but food should not be made the fundamental basis of your
practice. Remember that Adolf Hitler was a perfect vegetarian yet his diet
did not save his soul or even make him nonviolent.
Avoid fasting as it is a waste of time, will weaken you
physically, and can even cause neurological damage. Faddish books written
about the imagined benefits of fasting are not based on real medical
science.
Avoid drugs and alcohol. Carlos Castaneda was a talented
fiction writer, but he misled many people. Drugs are not an effective
path to enlightenment, but they are a quick path to misery and insanity.
Have sex when you wish and do not force celibacy upon
yourself in the hopes it will lead to enlightenment. To meditate one must be
in a very natural and relaxed state of mind without repression or tension.
Celibacy can only be of value if it occurs spontaneously without effort or
thought. The majority of famous Eastern gurus who have proclaimed celibacy
publicly have practiced intercourse privately. Why make sex a big secret and
why have two faces? Many fully enlightened humans have had sexual relations
even after enlightenment. There is no relationship between abstinence and
spirituality.
Do practice choiceless awareness (one object vision,
mindfulness etc.) throughout the day. Meditation must become as continuous
and spontaneous as breathing.
Don't make meditation a competition and drop any hidden
agenda you may have to use it to control others. Legitimate motives for
meditation are the desire for tranquility and ecstasy, freedom from
suffering, and the pure adventure of self-exploration.
Don't turn your meditation into a business. People who make
a profit from intercourse have turned something beautiful into something
ugly. Those who make money from meditation have transformed a noble path
into a sordid back alley. Whether you are a sexual prostitute or a spiritual
prostitute, the fundamental quality of your mind is the same.
Be completely honest and have just one face, not two.
Don't take the inspiring but totally unrealistic teachings
of J. Krishnamurti and U.G. Krishnamurti seriously. Both great men, but
generally poor teachers, were talking about themselves when they said that
methods are not needed. They lost the need for technique after
enlightenment, but both men practiced many methods before they attained. If
you do not do methods you will never develop any inner power. Meditation
methods put direct pressure on the false self, the ego. If you continue
patient practice at some point that false self will implode under the
pressure, without warning and without apparent and obvious method.
99.99% of people who drop methods stop far too soon, thus bringing their
progress to an early end.
For every action there is a reaction, not just in
theoretical physics but in ordinary human life as well. When you create
positive actions you will eventually reap positive reactions for yourself
and for others. In this way what we call ethics and morality are woven into
the very fabric of the universe right down to the subatomic level.
Enlightenment
The fastest meditation method is to live in the company of an
enlightened human being. Enlightened teachers can expand your consciousness
without the slightest effort on your part. All you need to do is to be open to
the spontaneous transfer of energy. Fully enlightened human are very rare. There
may have been as few as seven fully enlightened teachers in the 20th century. I
do not know of any fully enlightened teachers still living today, but that does
not mean they do not exist. More enlightened souls will be coming in the future
and it is your challenge to find them while avoiding the many fakes.
When it comes to teachers, even fully enlightened teachers,
take the best and leave the rest. No human being has ever been perfect and
without major flaws and limitations. Only myths can give the illusion of
perfection and that is why most of society continues to worship invented myths
rather than accepting reality as it is, warts and all. Enlightened humans are
vastly expanded human beings, not perfect human beings.
It is my educated opinion that the
traditional guru-disciple relationship is now passé and inappropriate for
Western students of meditation. The East has always had an imperial and
authoritarian model for the teacher-student relationship. The West must develop
its own Jeffersonian model based on science and fact, not on myth and tradition.
Be a devoted disciple, but make your ultimate guru the all and the everything,
the ultimate truth of the total cosmic existence. Use teachers as temporary
tools on your path to self-realization, but do not allow yourself to become the
captive servant of one fallible human mind.
* Definition: kundalini (k¢n´de-lê´nê) noun of Hindu origin.
Physical and sexual energy that lies dormant at the base of the spine is
activated through esoteric kundalini practice. This energy is directed through
the kundalini channel in the etheric body upward to the top of the head.
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